Yeah, all of this. It’s only recently that this mindset has come around. If you dig deep enough, you’ll find that being feminine is an insult. “Gay”, “F*****”, “P****” — these are all insults that men and boys use to hurt each other. Being perceived as “weak” by the pack makes boys fall in line, and learn that toxic, roid rage, locker room talk type of “masculinity” that is unhealthy.

We must choose to live lives that are healthy, learning that strength does not mean the ability to tear others down, but to build them up.